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Offline NT

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my daughter wants me to find her a man
« on: February 05, 2018, 08:08:49 PM »
I had a weird dream last night. I foresee my future daughter came to me with the help of finding a man. What the bloody hell?

I was like, my child, we don't do it that way in this house. In the olden days, maybe so. Yes, we did had something called arrange marriage, which the parents chose a husband and the daughter is consulted.

But in this house child, we do the opposite, you will  chose and we shall be consulted. The husband suitable for you will be chosen by you and not us. Me and my old lady agreed that we will not care about his birth, wealth, position, and other people's conventional opinions will not be counted.

I told her to chose a good man whose characters suit her, and we will accept him as our son in law. He is good enough if he has bodily strength, good character, and has family affection. As long as he is virtuous then he is rich enough. Me and your mama do not care if people do not like us or blame us, we do not seek to upgrade our social status or care for the approbation of men, we only care for your happiness.

My child, you will be sought in marriage, and it may be by those who are unworthy of you. If they show their true color, you shall judge them at their real values since they are not deceiving you. I trust that your judgement is good and you have enough experience to know how people can conceal their real-selves. A skillful suitor may study your taste  in order to seduce you and make a pretense of virtues in which he does not have. if you fall for it you will be ruin. 

My child, I trust you to make the right decision.

gosh, it is tough being a father, you know. Now I have to worry about my precious child future. i think I just grew another gray hair. Sign...

All and all, this was a weird dream.

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Re: my daughter wants me to find her a man
« Reply #1 on: February 05, 2018, 08:10:50 PM »
That’s a very detailed dream.

I think sometimes it’s best if you choose the spouse for your kid. Nowadays kids are not good at selecting a partner.

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Re: my daughter wants me to find her a man
« Reply #2 on: February 05, 2018, 09:31:10 PM »
I don't think she should be given the choice to choose.  She will probably follow the ways of Kim Kardashian or Tila Tequila or something.  It will be a nightmare. 

For god sake, find her a man.  She's looking to you for advice because she thinks the world of you and you tell her to get advice from her friends?  You have to think, does her friends have the same intuition as you or do they go out learning love by watching lion shows.

 
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