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Posted by: gaden
« on: October 23, 2020, 06:17:20 PM »

Well...over in the US it's not about the kids.  The culture is that the kids usually move out on their own when they finished their college, sometimes, and find a job then move out.  So, it is up to the kids if they have any empathy to their parents needs and empathy,  50% probably not. 

Just think about getting old and then go getting groceries, or mow your grass, or drive to a bar, or plow your car into other people, etc..  you would wonder what is the purpose of your life anyway?

Well..what I would do is to build myself a pyramid and stash a lot of beer in there with a coffin.  Then watch football until I die.  If my son were to come by and look at the place, I would grab him by the shirt and say ,'Eh son, you like that girl I set you up with?  She's my friend's daughter.  I signed a marriage contract with them to marry you off.  Take good care of her son.  Do not vote for liberals OK?"
Posted by: Guess
« on: October 23, 2020, 06:00:31 PM »

That’s sad about getting old. Sometimes you can blame the kids. Sometimes not. Some parents are nasty people and drive the kids away. So it’s up to the kid to decide. Some good parents can have bad kids too.

But in Vietnamese culture you are supposed to take care of your parents so no matter what you do your duties.
Posted by: gaden
« on: October 23, 2020, 05:48:29 PM »

One thing about old people in the US is that you'd better have you life planned out and not depend on anyone, not even your children, because you'll be on your own. 

My 80 year old neighbor lives alone and was having dementia.  There is just no one to look after her.  Her children doesn't come and visit every 5 years for maybe like 2 hours?  I'm not sure where is the hope for her to go on.
Posted by: Guess
« on: October 23, 2020, 05:37:14 PM »

I think she started having mental illness while married and that lead to divorce and homelessness.

Not too much information on the story I just made some assumptions from what I read. Her x husband owns thuy anh productions which put out old vnmese cds.

SHE HAD two girls with the husband, Nguyen Tuan bac. At first I thought they went with their father but she told someone social services took them away bc she Was not caring for them. Then a few years after became homeless, had a boy, unknown father. This boy, to show she could care for him, kept carrying him around, To the point he did not learn to walk, and fed him water so he was Malnourished. Social service took him too.

It said after the divorce she got into drugs. chicken or egg here, did she get sick first and self medicateD or the drugs lead to mental illness. Sounds like schizophrenia to me, walking around talking to herself, yelling at people.
Posted by: gaden
« on: October 23, 2020, 05:24:25 PM »

I can't believe she used to be a hot babe then turned out like this.  Where are her children?

Posted by: Guess
« on: October 23, 2020, 05:15:01 PM »

The name sounds familiar but couldn't think of her.  But research shows that her life went down a spiral.  She's got mental issues and went homeless.

Yep, now she wanders homeless in balsa
Posted by: gaden
« on: October 23, 2020, 03:15:43 PM »

The name sounds familiar but couldn't think of her.  But research shows that her life went down a spiral.  She's got mental issues and went homeless.
Posted by: ㋡
« on: October 23, 2020, 08:14:05 AM »

seen her before yes
Posted by: Guess
« on: October 23, 2020, 12:44:12 AM »

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