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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #40 on: February 08, 2020, 11:36:16 PM »
Kees heem!  Hug that Creature!  Loovee heem!  Why don't you cuddle heem!

Fixed  -heart

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #41 on: February 08, 2020, 11:41:06 PM »
If you count 90 stars from the sky at 3 nights, the fourth night at same time you will see your becoming spouse  -starplucker

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #42 on: February 10, 2020, 12:29:47 AM »
So, only 3 days to save your butts from "not remembering it is valentines day" and then it is  -heart Also remember that some countries and people also celebrate it as "friend's day" so spend a coffee break with your friend(s) and evening with your loved one. Don't forget your friends!
Tell your friends why they are so awesome, give a call, card, send a message, go to coffee, gym or movies with or anything to appreciate your friends!
 

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #43 on: February 10, 2020, 11:06:06 AM »
This is for the both: in loving relationships and platonic friendships

Make Your Advice Constructive: When a friend needs to talk, listen without interruption. If advice is asked for, be positive and supportive.
Be Loyal: Loyalty is faithfulness. It means “being with” your friend in bad times as well as good.
Give Praise and Encouragement: Tell your friends what you like about them, how thankful you are for their presence in your life. Delight in their talents, applaud their success  -heart

https://family.wikinut.com/Sure-Ways-to-Treasure-Your-Friendship-and-Keep-Your-Friends%2C-Friends-Forever/279_wlsq/

In the time of Internet and social media "friendships" it can be all quite empty after all. Some "friends" are seen only when they are liking updates etc. Before Internet all friends were real.

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #44 on: February 11, 2020, 07:31:44 AM »
That is rather traumatic, scary and disgusting  -shock No wonder bigger number of women don't want sex anymore.

I mean to prevent the dryness.  Maybe Aloe vera.

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #45 on: February 11, 2020, 08:49:25 AM »
I mean to prevent the dryness.  Maybe Aloe vera.


Still indeed. Some women sure are aroused by porn but woman is just vomitting screaming drugged p hore on it , it is weird how men gets aroused by porn when women are just used holes. Watching porn explains a lot about failing relationships. People should not look it at all. It also shrinks brains.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2642712/Does-watching-porn-make-LAZY-X-rated-content-shrink-region-brain-linked-motivation-study-claims.html

"Many women need plenty of physical and emotional stimulation to become aroused, lubricated, and primed for an orgasm. That's why foreplay is so crucial.
 

The key is to emphasize the "play" in foreplay. It's shouldn't be rushed or treated like an obligatory task. In fact, foreplay can begin hours before sex actually occurs, and every minute of it will prepare her for an orgasm. Here are some tips for getting both of you in the mood.

*    Stimulate her mentally. For some women, mental arousal is just as important as physical arousal. A sexy note or a flirtatious call during the day can get her thinking about your upcoming liaison. Candles, fresh flowers, and mood music can also create a loving and sensuous atmosphere. For many women, closeness and emotional intimacy can lead to better sexual experiences and more orgasms.
 *   Use a tender touch. Caressing her gently can create sexual tension before you go any further. Hug her, hold her hand, or touch her thigh. Female orgasm is more likely to happen if, when you're kissing a woman, you let your hands roam to more erotic regions of her body. (Another hint: Yes, the breasts are an erogenous zone, but they're not the only one! Try stroking her back or her thighs, or sliding your fingers into her hair.)
*    Take kissing to the next level. Kissing is essential to foreplay. Discovering new places to kiss that turn her on is both fun and rewarding. Try the back of her neck or her shoulders for starters.
*    Don't forget to talk. Women tend to be more verbal, and hearing how good she's making you feel can help her open up and have fun.
https://www.everydayhealth.com/mens-health/female-orgasm-secrets.aspx

You supposed to discuss with her what she likes and not just assume by porn, according to your ex gf or anything but just ask her what is her thingy.

And chemicals :p

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #46 on: February 11, 2020, 09:48:48 AM »
You need chemicals, you can be a very great person but your chemicals still goes active only with some people, not with all people. You can not really choose who makes your brain produce the love stuff, it just happends.

I did not read this article it could be so wrong but this thread needs pictures.





http://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-companionship/



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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #47 on: February 11, 2020, 10:01:56 AM »

https://i1.wp.com/sitn.hms.harvard.edu/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/Figure-1-1.png?resize=768%2C439


There should be also a picture which shows the feelings in heart and those flames and pains during body. Same with orgasms as they are felt during the body and not just as brain activation. They should make a study where people are drawing and marking their orgasm feelings into a paper human. For some that is head to toes same as they feel some person they love and some feel more located feelings.

If they did already, show me!

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #48 on: February 11, 2020, 10:10:23 AM »
After scanning the brains of 100 students, a third of whom were hopelessly in love with someone, scientists have managed to reveal some of the changes in brain activity that are related to love. Those smitten with someone showed increased neuronal activity in several brain regions, including a component of the reward circuitry, when compared with those who were out of love. According to the researchers, these findings help shed light on the underlying neural mechanisms of romantic love and demonstrate that the methods used could represent a valid way to investigate love. The study has been published in Frontiers in Human Neuroscience.

What is love? That’s not easy to answer, but according to psychologists, it is “a motivational state associated with a desire to enter or maintain a close relationship with a specific other person.”

https://www.iflscience.com/brain/brain-scans-reveal-activity-associated-romantic-love/

You can fool people but not machines, they will know who you love  -cutewink

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #49 on: February 11, 2020, 02:21:16 PM »
It’s pretty well-established at this point that having friends is good for you — over the years, study after study has found that social support is a significant predictor of a long, healthy life. The word friend, though, can mean so many things in so many different contexts: your work spouse, the old college pal you call when you feel like reminiscing, that person on the edge of your social circle that you always chat with at parties. Maybe you use “friend” to refer to a broad swath of people you enjoy hanging out with; maybe you reserve it for the few people you’d feel comfortable spilling your guts to.

According to one of the newest studies of the bunch, that last type of friendship may be one of the most valuable when it comes to your well-being

people generally look to their best friend to fill two critical roles: “source of strength support,” in which friends provide comfort, protection, and soothing; and acting as a “relational catalyst,” challenging, encouraging, and celebrating the other person. A best friendship, in other words, can make the bad better and the good even more so, something that more casual friendships can’t always pull off.

https://www.thecut.com/2017/09/why-having-a-best-friend-is-good-for-your-health.html?utm_source=cnh&utm_medium=y1&utm_campaign=thecut

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #50 on: February 11, 2020, 07:58:05 PM »
You are in live huh? Come here I will give you some ❤️ . Do you like we romantic like this song?



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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #51 on: February 12, 2020, 03:31:43 AM »
You are in live huh? Come here I will give you some ❤️ . Do you like we romantic like this song?


Thanks! You can be as romantic as you want to in this thread and this sub forum  -hi5 Have you already planned your valentines dates? I liked godens altar lady thread he had potential to be romantic and find a partner, we can plan a dating howl for you too but you have to free your romantic beast out first. This is a good start.  Relationships are usually more succesfull when they are coated by love instead hate. I love love and I love to share about love  monkeyyeah
And I wish everyone are able to open their  -heart :s for love and find their other half  -loveangel
What could be better time to talk about love than valentines day, leap day and all others day in a year?  :p
I lived in love for years already and hopefully many more, that is my spouses fault -fallinlove

What comes to songs there was a thread about language of love http://vietrealm.com/index.php?PHPSESSID=dec4df9ca0efa63a37c1a71b52066f84&topic=36921.0

The Five Love Languages Defined

Do you know the 5 Love Languages? Here they are:

l. Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “Thanks for
taking out the garbage.” Not – “It’s about time you took the garbage out. The
flies were going to carry it out for you.”

2. Gifts – a gift says, “He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me.”

3. Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would
like. Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.

4. Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention.
Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and
listening.

5. Physical touch – holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all
expressions of love.

Out of these five, each of you has a primary love language which speaks more
deeply to you than all the others. Discovering each other’s language and speaking
it regularly is the best way to keep love alive in a marriage.
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/2018/06/the-five-love-languages-defined/

It has to be same with you and your partner or it leaves another empty and lonely. If you are a type of a guy who speaks his love buy sharing love songs then choose a woman which shares the same way. Some people are fine with songs written to others but I never liked that form. Some people have song lists how they build their relationship but I never felt other peoples songs my own. That is why I tent to write my own. What ever you do, you have to build and grow things with your becoming spouse together, your story is about you 2. It is not about what happends in songs but what happends between you 2 and you 2 make it happend, not songs.

I also demand my spouse to speak his own words instead quoting movies, poems, songs etc. It just does not come from his heart if he is quoting. I rather take some weird heartfarts as long as that is how he wraps it and it is his genuine thought. I am giving those too so we have the same language of love with him  -cutewink

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #52 on: February 12, 2020, 04:34:38 PM »
How old are you girl? Look like you are in love. My love life is dried up long time ago.
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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #53 on: February 13, 2020, 12:27:04 AM »
How old are you girl? Look like you are in love. My love life is dried up long time ago.
We don't focus on me, we focus on you. We are bursting your love cells active again and groom your spirite of love ready for the dating world  :)

So what are your sins which we have to fix? How and why your earlier relationships ended for? What caused the bad days? Do you also have smoking/drugging/alcohol problems like some others? Be honest. Your love life goes the same circle or stays same untill you fix the problems. When you fix the problems, you are ready to find your love  -heart

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #54 on: February 13, 2020, 12:50:54 AM »
This spell is for lifting love  -heart

~ Lift your amorous energy flapping
Lift your dignity pealing
Let the elixir of life shine on your face
So someone could keep you holy
as you would be the love itself ~

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #55 on: February 13, 2020, 04:52:28 PM »
We don't focus on me, we focus on you. We are bursting your love cells active again and groom your spirite of love ready for the dating world  :)

So what are your sins which we have to fix? How and why your earlier relationships ended for? What caused the bad days? Do you also have smoking/drugging/alcohol problems like some others? Be honest. Your love life goes the same circle or stays same untill you fix the problems. When you fix the problems, you are ready to find your love  -heart

Lol you asked too many questions. It is ok.

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So what are your sins which we have to fix
I regretted that I didn't love the girls enough.
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How and why your earlier relationships ended for?
Didn't love the girls enough.
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What caused the bad days?
When I caught the flu
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Do you also have smoking/drugging/alcohol problems like some others?
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So how are you going to help?



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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #56 on: February 14, 2020, 12:03:35 AM »
Lol you asked too many questions. It is ok.
I regretted that I didn't love the girls enough.Didn't love the girls enough.When I caught the fluHealthy gym 4 packs

So how are you going to help?

(did you or do you love men then?)
I am helping for example by telling that your answers are too short and not enough informative which means if you do that in relationships too, they continue to be failed. See you must be open and identify your own problems and ifentify problems in your relationship. That is not all but you have to learn to express your thoughts to your partner and talk about them as neutral as possible means no personal attacks for either side.

This is public forum so you don't have to reveal details for the whole world but think about those factors on the paper. Write honestly and leave the paper on the desk about a few days. Then pick it up and start to ponder like it would tell some other persons problems in a relationship. It is important to think things from non personal contexts and try to take issues just as issues so you can find more fair solutions for them.

You have 2 personality in a relationship and both should take consider. What all people need to learn is to learn empathize partner. That is one thing which almost all people and according to study, men, lack. I cannot know what you mean by "not loving enough" and if you don't want to tell address it to yourself by detailing what all it means. Was it said to you, did you noticed it by yourself, what, how, when, why etc. analyze.

Then what happened when you had a flu? This actually matches with a study I told: men are emphatic only towards themselves it says man flu for exact example. Men does not care about their partners feelings but only their own man flus.

"For women who think that men just don't seem to understand, well, you're right: Men really are less empathetic than women, and a new study from England offers clues about why this might be the case.

Empathy is the ability to recognize and relate to what’s going on in another person’s mind, but scientists still know very little about what makes some people more attuned to someone else’s feelings than others."

https://www.livescience.com/61987-empathy-women-men.html

I don't judge but your answer could be "when we had flu or when she had flu" when you would show some sympathy to your partners pains too.

"Though the researchers found that women scored ten points higher on the empathy test than men on average, they discovered no genetic basis for these differences.

Varun Warrier, a doctoral student in neuroscience who lead the study, said:

    Genetically, men and women seem identical, but there is a difference in the empathy score which is quite significant. The highest possible score in the EQ test is 80. We saw that men score, on average, 40, and women score, on average, 50.

Empathy comes more easily to some, but it’s possible to learn it even if you’re not the most naturally empathetic person. To learn empathy, try this exercise:

    Think about your significant other or a friend, family member, or coworker.
    What has their mood been like in recent days?
    What’s going on in this person’s life that might be making them happy or sad, anxious, or angry?
    How are you contributing?
    What could you do or say to improve this person’s situation?
The non-empathetic response would be to snap at them, remind them that your commute is longer, and angrily respond when they don’t ask about your day. That might feel good to do in the moment, and it might be “true,” but is that response helpful? Would it make your relationship better? Would it improve your life or your partner’s life?

No, it would not. Instead, it would make everything much, much worse.

Here’s an example of the empathy exercise at work:

    Think about your partner.
    Think about how your partner has been very stressed out the last couple of days.
Think about what’s been going on in your partner’s life that may be leading them to feel stressed. Are they working longer hours than usual? Were they passed over for a promotion? Did a coworker or boss say or do something that upset them? You may not know the particulars, but if your partner comes home from work anxious and agitated every day, it’s pretty safe to assume something unpleasant happened at the office.
Go over the last couple of days and think about how you may have contributed to your partner’s situation. You may not be the cause of it, but are you making them feel better or worse? Imagine yourself in the same situation. If you were having a hard time at work, how would you feel if you came home to a partner who snapped at you for complaining about your job?

Finally, consider things you could do or say to improve your partner’s situation. People show and accept affection in different ways. While you may appreciate little gifts as a sign of love, your partner may appreciate actions more. Could you make them something for dinner you know they’ll enjoy? Give them a back rub? Think about what you know would lift your partner’s mood, not what you would like in the same situation."

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mindful-anger/201809/learn-empathy-in-just-5-steps

Relationship is communicating to learn each others and questions and answers are important. Then you will know the problems and solutions.

I post that flu article later if I find it some day.

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #57 on: February 14, 2020, 12:15:37 AM »
 -heart Have a happy, sympathic and loving valentines / friends day everyone. If you happend to be alone then love yourself today  -heart

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #58 on: February 14, 2020, 04:22:24 PM »
In the spirit of Valentines after a few beers, I would like to present to every women on Vietrealm a very bodacious bootilicious Valentines Day.  And to all the girls I have loved before a monumental gift of Hollyhocks planted by my very own hands.  Hope you will be filled with love and holy hocks.




And to all the guys.  fock off you rodents!!!!

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Re: Valentines day 2020
« Reply #59 on: February 14, 2020, 04:38:08 PM »
-heart Have a happy, sympathic and loving valentines / friends day everyone. If you happend to be alone then love yourself today  -heart

How do I love myself? Can you love me instead? I have many things can't publicly share. Can you PM me so I can share my pain?
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