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Offline UniFy(心臓盗人)

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I hate men beating up their children
« on: May 21, 2020, 04:18:58 PM »
I was beaten many time my dad when I was younger. I kinda made peace with him and retaliate mentally on him calling stuff and that. Every time I read a domestic violence case against children, my blood boils. I go in hate mode where reason disappears.

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Re: I hate men beating up their children
« Reply #1 on: May 21, 2020, 04:39:41 PM »
In Asia, people live in larger families and kids can go to the grandparents for emotional support.

Takes a village to raise a child.

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Re: I hate men beating up their children
« Reply #2 on: May 21, 2020, 08:52:31 PM »
Obviously I support discipline of kids, but never through violence.  I think if parents have to resort to such tactics, it shows they didn't have much parenting skills.

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Re: I hate men beating up their children
« Reply #3 on: May 29, 2020, 04:47:17 PM »
You have to use some sort of method to get  respect from the child.  When you tell the child not to do that 100 times and he still does it, the quickest way is to use force.  Or if you tell the child to take out the trash 100 times and he doesn't do it then maybe wrestle him down on the ground.  Some will see it as horrific display of force, but it helps to keep the child on focus and later develop his character in life, a life where he will see value instead of manipulations.

Some people say to be gentle and be their friend, do what they do and go with their desires.  That's not going to work.  Friends are your peers.  Parents provide direction and guidance. 

Some people try to use The Super Nanny method.  But that takes a super human feat of endurance and patience.  Also, The Super Nanny methods seems to utilize a lot of wheeling and dealings with the child.  That sort of method works but what happens when the child becomes an adult?  All those wheeling and dealing will turn them into a poker player.

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Re: I hate men beating up their children
« Reply #4 on: June 24, 2020, 09:39:20 PM »
Physical abuse is never ok. I think you can be firm without being physically abuse.

Being to permissive is bad too.

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