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Offline gaden

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Re: sometimes i'm scared of asian parents
« Reply #20 on: May 22, 2014, 01:40:42 PM »
No, no, you have to give him all the love he needs. Don't throw him out even if he behaves badly. He won't ever realize that's he's an azzhole at the age he's at, but you can't fight fire with fire. He won't hear it from you so maybe if you still treat him nicely, with some luck he might turn things around. at the very least treat him like a child who never grew up.

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Re: sometimes i'm scared of asian parents
« Reply #21 on: May 22, 2014, 04:41:45 PM »
my friend told me his mom would nag and nag whenever he does something she doesn't approve. It's what my uncle does as well. My friend doesn't mind that.  I wonder if she does other nasty things like my uncle. I  know though his parents are well off so he doesn't support them.

Most families I know the parents are well off. My uncle has a friend, supposedly lives in a house his son bought for him but the friend continutes to work and very handy so fixes things aroudn the house and even gets a couple of roommates to help with mortgage. My uncle is very well provided for trust me. Lived in a house all by himself (when he rented my brother paid rent, then when he moved into my brother's spare townhous, didn't pay rent, lived alone). He's not handy at all so during the day just sits around. A couple days a week went to computer classes, maybe once or twice a month goes to a meditation class. He gets $700 in social security, $500 allowance from me, each time goes to VN gets additional 5-6K.

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Re: sometimes i'm scared of asian parents
« Reply #22 on: May 14, 2018, 05:57:41 PM »
wow, I am genuinely shocked how you can tolerate such a person. 

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Re: sometimes i'm scared of asian parents
« Reply #23 on: May 15, 2018, 03:02:28 AM »
Well, it’s the Confucius filial duties. You owe them your life so nothing is good enough.

I just have lower tolerance for BS. I know many viet kids just let things roll off their backs.

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Re: sometimes i'm scared of asian parents
« Reply #24 on: May 15, 2018, 01:33:47 PM »
he´s your uncle though not your father. 

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Re: sometimes i'm scared of asian parents
« Reply #25 on: May 16, 2018, 06:55:06 AM »
Lol, that’s why the debt is even heavier. We were raised by him. At least your parents have the obligation to raise you.

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Re: sometimes i'm scared of asian parents
« Reply #26 on: May 16, 2018, 06:56:58 AM »
Anyhow, since he’s in Vietnam, I just send the monthly allowance. Even now, the jerk still disapproves of x,y,z things I do.

 
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